I really love pretty paper, and Lance couldn't care less, so Minted was a good compromise for us. Minted's business model is to create stationer-quality paper for much less than a custom suite. I was able to edit it enough to create what I wanted, so I was happy. The designer we worked with did a fantastic job with the glyphs, which are the part of a calligraphy font package that create the swirlies at the ends of letters--the original output was really weird because the letters in my name default to swirlies and Lance's didn't. Here's our proof, all cleaned up:
I spent an embarrassingly long time deciding on "as they celebrate the Sacrament of marriage" over "as they are united in marriage," but Lance liked the Catholic wording. Usually the default Catholic wording is "as they celebrate the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony," but Lance thought that was too stuffy. I also added the address to the invite to save us another insert. It's not the most formal option, but I thought it made more sense to have all the information in fewer pages.
Our RSVP card caused some confusion, because some of my friends didn't understand the meaning of letter M before the names line (it's French for madam or monsieur). We considered writing out "Names" before the line or changing the wording below to something like "Number attending," but ultimately decided that we liked the balance and clean look of the card as was (and Lance pinky-swore that he'd help me call people to get the correct guest count if we got confusing RSVP cards).
We were able to save some money on the invites by having the reception card and RSVP card digitally printed (the actual invites are beautiful letterpress) and by choosing an RSVP postcard (over a folded card with an envelope). I was pretty happy that the paper colors and weight turned out to be a close match, too! The RSVP postcard originally had a heart on it, but I tend to think hearts are tacky, so I had them replace it with a tiny quatrefoil. I love it!
Finally, I tried to work in our website (where there is a LOT more information than is on the invites), but it didn't really fit on the reception card. Vistaprint was running a sale, so we made tiny business-card versions with the website and parking information (in case our local friends and family don't visit the site). I was even able to match the invitation font!